We have switched off who is in charge of meals, laundry, landscaping, etc. My husband has usually been the one who puts the kids down to bed at night and I am usually the one who takes care of the dog and any mess she makes. When we enter into a season when our lifestyle is different, we quickly go over the main responsibilities to see if we should shuffle them around. Lots of talking! When it comes time to make a big decision like moving out of state, or buying a house, or quitting a job, we talk about it together first.
Then we each take it to prayer and usually to Adoration. This could be a friend, a priest, a spiritual advisor, a therapist or even a book. We try to find someone who is not emotionally attached to help us see things more clearly. This can be a tricky step. When you are married, your spouse will eventually see all of you. I mean that physically, emotionally, and to a large extent mentally. They will see your addictions, your excuses, your weaknesses, all most of the ugly stuff you hide from friends and family. This is actually a beautiful part of marriage.
When we let down our guard and show them the real us, their job is to love us through that and stick around. That is one of the reasons the marriage relationship is so deep and personal. You say I love you even though you struggle with X. How can I help you overcome that? My husband was great when I had postpartum depression after our second was born.
You need to go see someone. This year my husband is running our family business, basically single-parenting our kids, and trying to take care of his pregnant wife on bed rest. This has only happened one time in our eight years of marriage. And ladies, it was hard on me! It was really hard because I felt like I was right and he was just plain wrong. It was the first time I had to really challenge myself on this whole submissive wife thing in a really big way.
Time will tell whether that was a big mistake or not but I have to trust my husband and trust God that the marriage unit works better this way. I think that would be helpful for young wives to hear! Love, love, love this! My husband and I both come from divorced households as well and have had to sort of figure this whole married thing out for ourselves.
And for us, it too was another Christain couple that helped us see the way God designed us to be in a marriage. Thank you for this opportunity! My husband and I married In A Submissive wife knows that having a bad attitude when trying to get her point of view across during a disagreement will not help and will only make the situation worse. It is better to talk to him calmly, and with respect your husband deserves. A Submissive Wife knows that her husband cannot force her to submit to his will.
The only way she will submit to her husband will is if he is worthy of her special gift of submission and he will then inspire her to be a Submissive Wife. EP - Always be open and truthful to your husband. A Submissive Wife knows if she has to sneak about or hide something from her Husband then she has no right to be doing what she is doing. Always be open and truthful to your husband. There is nothing that husband and wife should not be able to tell each other. EP - A Submissive wife knows that submitting to her husband is not going to be easy. A Submissive wife knows that submitting to her husband is not going to be easy.
There are going to be times when she will have to fight the urge to shout or curse at him. She has to learn to communicate her feelings in a non-aggressive and respectful manner. She knows that raising her voice in a disrespectful voice will not help resolve any disagreement only make it worse. She knows her husband will listen and take more notice of what she says and thinks if she is calm and respectful.
A Submissive wife knows that when she accepted her husband's request for her hand in marriage, she also recognised that he would be Head of The House and she will be happy to follow his lead. She gladly gives him authority over her body and is proud to submit to her husband. EP - Your marriage is not a community project. Your friends do not need to know when and how you made love or why you and your husband disagree. Show your husband the respect and privacy he deserves. EP - Your Husband's Brain is wired differently where sex is concerned. A Submissive wife should remember if you are feeling tired and you reject your husband's romantic advances his brain is wired differently to yours where sex is concerned, and he will see your rejection differently than you just being tired, he will see it as rejecting him.
You might not feel in the mood at first but if you allow your mind to unwind from the day while taking things slowly and think romantic thoughts your body will soon catch up. So instead of instant rejection start slowly and let nature take its course. EP - Dress with class, your smile is what people notice and remember not your chest.
A Submissive Wife should remember to dress modestly when out of the house without her husband; you do not want to send out the wrong signals and attract attention from other men. EP - If your marriage is not what it used to be and the flame is dying. If your marriage is not what it used to be and the flame is dying. Ask yourself does this verse apply to you and your marriage "If you are too lazy to plough then don't expect a harvest. Marriage is a life long commitment that needs attention and effort if you don't give it love and care your relationship will wither and die.
EP - As a Submissive Wife, you should always be striving to be the best wife you can be. As a Submissive Wife, you should always be striving to be the best wife you can be. Help and support him every day and always be the one he knows he can rely on to be in his corner. If you want the husband of your dreams, you have to be the Wife he always prayed he would marry. Episode - As a Submissive Wife, it is not just your tongue you have to learn to control.
As a Submissive Wife, you have to remember it is not just your tongue you have to learn to control. You also have to learn to manage the look you give him and to stop rolling your eyes. Yes, ladies, he does notice you disrespectfully rolling your eyes. Often your look can say more than any words coming from your tongue. Learning control is going to take some work at first, but it will pay dividends.
EP - A Submissive Wife should not criticise her husband's choices. A Submissive Wife should not criticise her husband's choices. It is rude and disrespectful to criticise him if you think he has made a wrong choice look for a respectful way to get your message across and learn to trust his choices and that he has your best interests at heart. If you think his judgement is that wrong asking you to marry him was one of his choices.
EP - As a Submissive wife, it is not always going to be easy to submit to your husband. As a Submissive wife, it is not always going to be easy to submit to your husband. EP - As a Submissive Wife you will encounter lots of contempt for your lifestyle choice.
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As a Submissive Wife in this modern world, you will encounter lots of contempt for your lifestyle choice, don't take any notice of other peoples negative opinions about your lifestyle choice. It is your life, and you have the right to live your life as you wish. You know that living a life where you submit to your husband and follow his lead is what makes you happy and that is all that matters.
EP - Society is attacking the authority of the man in the home. Sadly modern society is attacking the authority of the man in the home and family values are suffering because of this, more and more parents are treating their children as though they are best mates. You and your husband are not their friends you are their parents, the two people your children can rely on and who should be teaching them right from wrong and how to behave.
Your children need a Father who leads his house and a mother who supports her husband. EP - There is nothing wrong with traditional gender roles. A Submissive Wife should remember that men and women were not created to be able to do the same things as good as each other. Men are good at providing and building while women are good at caring and homemaking. It does not mean that one is superior to the other. They are both equal in value and were created to compliment each other; there is nothing wrong with traditional gender roles.
EP - Let him have time to unwind. When your husband comes home from work, let him have time to unwind before you start telling him all about your day and it's problems. He will want to hear about your day but not the minute he walks through the door. Let him take his shoes off make him a drink and let him unwind a little first. Save your news for the dinner table. EP - Sex is not just something you provide for your husband's satisfaction. Sex was given to us for pleasure.
EP - Don't bring other people into your bedroom. Don't bring other people into your bedroom. There should only be you and your husband, do not bring your phone to bed with you. Focus on your husband and not on your social media feed. Your husband is the one that matters, and he will still be there when all the online friends have long gone. EP - Have you discovered these holidays how distant you and your husband have become?
Have you discovered these holidays how distant you and your husband have become? Have you noticed large cracks appearing in your marriage? Are you ready to give up take the easy option and get divorced or do you want to fight for your marriage because your vows meant something to you? If they did have you considered how being a Submissive wife in a traditional style marriage could bring you and your husband back together as husband and wife. Being a Submissive wife does not mean you are a doormat for your husband to walk all over. Once you stop fighting over who is in charge and adopt you natural gender roles the tension and friction in your home will subside and be replaced with calmness and love.
As you fight less with each other you will rekindle your love and look forward to spending time together again. Marriage is for life and not just a till you get bored. EP - The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence it only looks like it. Please do not compare your husbands against other men; they will have different strengths and weaknesses, this does not mean that they are better than him.
Your friends may go on about how their husband is good at this and that or buy them things you wish you had. Remember the reasons you feel in love with your husband; no other man has the same qualities he has. He is a complete package good and bad.
When celebrating the New Year tonight, you should remember Once you are married you and your husband become one, and nothing or no one should be allowed to come between you in deed or thought. The only man you should have any sexual thoughts about is your husband, do not commit adultery in mind or body. EP - Take pride in looking after the home, plan your cleaning. A Submissive Wife should take pride in looking after the home. I advise you have a daily cleaning schedule done with jobs for each day. List your daily jobs such as making beds and your weekly jobs such as cleaning bedrooms.
Spread the jobs out, so all rooms are cleaned each week. Having a set rota ensures all jobs get done and get split into manageable tasks, so you don't have all the jobs to do at once. Being organised and knowing what has to be done each day does make life easier and less stressful. EP - Be a wife worthy of his respect. If you want a husband that will show you respect, you have to be a woman worthy of his respect.
You have to Be humble, kind, gentle, modest and always be on your husband's side, even when times get tough. You have to be the wife he knows will always give him an honest opinion. However, do it with respect even if your opinion differs from his viewpoint. EP - Your husband is your number one priority. A Submissive Wife should remember that she should never put friends, family or work in front of her Husband. Once you are married, you become one, and your husband is your number one priority.
Being married does not mean you cannot spend time with family and friends it means that you put your husband before your family and friends. If you put your family and friends before your husband, then you are risking doing damage to your marriage. EP - A Submissive wife should not spend irresponsibly. A Submissive should always make sure she stays within her budget. Irresponsible spending puts unnecessary pressure on your husband and your relationship. It is your husband's responsibility to manage the family finances and make sure all the bills get paid.
When you do not control your spending you make his job difficult and in some cases impossible and you leave him with no option but to hold you accountable and take a firm stand for your overspending. EP - Don't hold a grudge. When you disagree, don't hold a grudge. Life is to short. When you hold a grudge and stop speaking to your husband, it shows your lack of respect for your husband and his leadership.
Holding a grudge will only cause him to pull away and be distant, and you want the holidays to be full of love and laughter, not arguing and divorce. Holiday Tip No8 A Submissive Wife should not forget to take time out to pamper her self for Christmas, remember you want to look your best for your husband. Wear clothing that he likes to see you in. It is essential that you make an effort to look your best, he will appreciate the effort you make.
Just because you are married, it does not mean that you can stop trying to dress to impress him. Keep the spark between you alive. Do not compare your gifts to what others have received, remember they may have a more expensive gift, but they are not lucky enough to be married to your husband. Holiday Tip No6 A Submissive Wife should not be guilty of spending more time and effort looking at her social media feed than she spends working on her marriage.
Your husband should be your number one priority not what your friend wore to a party. Watch a movie together, go for a walk the important thing is to spend quality time together. If your phone is a constant distraction turn it off Facebook will still be there tomorrow. A Submissive Wife should not drink to excess; you do not want to embarrass your husband in front of your family and friends over the holidays with drunken behaviour.
Alcohol alters the way we think and react to situations and things people have said to us. Enjoy a glass of wine or two but be aware of your limits and if you are one of those who can not handle alcohol drink soft drinks only. You don't have to be drunk to have a good time. Holiday Tip No4 A Submissive wife should remember that she is the keeper of the house.
Do not nag at your husband to help you with the household chores while he is on holiday. Nagging will not encourage him to want to help you, instead be a pleasure to be around flirt with him, make him want to spend time with you because he enjoys your company not because you nag him constantly. Happier husbands are always more willing to help out in the home. However, if he refuses to help accept his choice and do not start arguing, you are the keeper of the home, and he is the provider of the home.
Remember your traditional gender roles. Holiday Tip No3 The holidays are a great time for seeing family and friends but remember not to any invitations or invite people without first consulting your husband. Your husband may want to do something different, don't just take it for granted he will want to do what you want.
Your husband is HoH, and his word about arrangements is the final word and you should not go moody if he says no. EP - Holiday Tip No2. Holiday Tip No2 No matter how much your husband gets under your feet during the holidays, do not say to him "I will be glad when you are back at work. Having a negative attitude towards him is not showing him the respect he deserves as your husband. How to deal with the stress of having your husband home all day over the holidays. It is a sad fact but many marriages do not survive the Christmas holidays, husbands and wives are not used to spend all day with each other, often this is because with the pressure of work and modern life they have forgotten how to communicate with each other.
Over the next few days, I am going to give you some recollection and survival tips Holiday Tip No1 Start the day on a positive note with a cuddle, you don't have to rush to work so enjoy a relaxed start to the day. EP - A Submissive Wife should protect her marriage at all times. A Submissive Wife should protect her marriage at all times. Don't allow friendships with males to put your marriage at risk. Being unfaithful is not restricted to have sex or kissing another person, if you start deleting messages on your phone so your husband does not see them or if you start having secret phone calls you are already unfaithful to your husband.
The safest thing is not to put your self in these situations where unhealthy relationships can develop. Stay true and faithful to the man you married, let no one come between you ever. EP - As his wife, you should be his number one fan. A Submissive Wife should never make any comment to her family or friends that ridicules her husband even if it is in jest making a remark that makes fun or is unkind is disrespectful, and your husband deserves better from his wife.
As his wife, you should be his number one fan. A question I am often asked is can I be a Submissive Wife and have a career as well? The answer is YES, there is nothing to stop you having a fulfilling career and be a Submissive Wife as well. As long as when you are at home you are the submissive wife who is lead by her husband and abides by his decisions even if she is the main source of income for the family.
You may be in charge of hundreds of people at work but your husband is head of the house and his word is the final word. Are you guilty of this? EP - A Submissive Wife should always be honest. A Submissive Wife should always be honest if you have done something wrong admit to it don't try to hide what you have done wrong or deny what you have done. Your husband deserves your honesty and the truth will always come out in the end. If you are not honest then you will derve the consequences of being dishonest. Honesty is always the best policy. No matter how bad the problem is.
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EP - Dress like a lady for parties. You do not want to attract the unwanted attention of other men. You don't have to be nearly naked to look good, and you don't have to be drunk to enjoy yourself. EP - There is nothing more lonely than a cold marriage bed. Before refusing your husbands advances remember A Submissive Wife should want to submit freely to her husband.
If you feel unwell explain this to your husband don't expect him to be a mind reader When you got married, you became one body and belonged to each other. The more time you spend being intimate with your husband, the more you will want to be intimate with him the stronger your bond will become. EP - Love Is Kind. A Submissive Wife should remember it is only natural and healthy for your relationship to have disagreements in a marriage. What is important is how you conduct yourself in these disagreements, you can disagree with your husband without being disrespectful and hurtful.
Do not say things that are designed to hurt your husband's feelings. You love your husband and "Love Is Kind. EP - Never forget the importance of fun and laughter. A Submissive Wife should never forget the importance of fun and laughter in her marriage. Make time to watch a funny movie together, share jokes with your husband, make each other laugh, the more you laugh together, the more your brains associate fun and happiness when you are together, making your bond even stronger. Your home should be a place of fun not war. A Submissive Wife should never question her Husbands authority in front of the children.
Children need to see that husband and wife treat each other with respect and that the husband is the Head Of The House and his word is the final word. EP - Stop trying to change your husband. Stop trying to change your husband he is who he is. If you were able to change your husband, he would no longer be the man you fell in love with.
Is that what you would want to happen. EP - React in a positive way to what your husband has said. React in a positive way to what your husband has said How many arguments have started because you reacted in a negative way to something your husband said or did? If you are unable to answer your husband respectfully and positively, then keep your opinion to yourself.
Always try to look for the positive in every situation, he is your husband, not your enemy. Would you like it if your husband reacted negatively towards you all the time? A Submissive Wife should remember there will be times when she will desire to control her husband. Having these thoughts is a normal part of married life, but you have to fight them, you may see your husband making decisions you would make differently but you have to hold back that urge to take control.
Remember that you gave him authority over you the day you married him and that you trust that he will always have your best interests at heart. EP - Learn to listen and let your husband speak without interruption from you. Learn to listen and let your husband speak without interruption from you Are you guilty of the following: Interrupting your husband when he speaks Finishing his sentences for him Talking over him because you feel what you have to say is more important Looking around instead of at him while he speaks Checking your phone while he speaks Stat talking to another person It is only good manners to stop what you are doing and give your husband your full attention when he speaks.
Anything less is disrespectful, and you deserve your husband to hold you accountable for being disrespectful to him. Remember you have two ears and one mouth for a reason. EP - A Submissive wife is a full-time job 24 hours a day. A Submissive Wife should manage her home well, it takes a great deal of skill, and hard work to do it properly, being a Submissive wife is a full-time job 24 hours a day seven days a week with no holidays. Hopefully, your learning on how to be a good wife will of started when you were a child it is the mother's place to teach her daughters the skills she will need later in life.
Unfortunately, modern life is changing how the families live, and many mothers do not have the time or even want to teach their daughters the skills either because they have to work full-time jobs then come home and start again or that they have modern views on marriage.
There is now lots of pressure on young women not to be "Submissive" in the home; women get told that she should be in charge as well. The sad fact is that it has never been harder than it is now for a young woman to get married and live a traditional lifestyle where she is the Submissive Wife, and her husband is the Head Of The House. The thing I find strange about modern times is that women have fought for the have the right to choose how they live, but now women who want to live a traditional married life feel pressured not to and many fear ridicule if they tell their friends.
Modern views are taking away the right to live freely and openly traditional life Lots of young ladies now face marriage without the necessary skill set to be a good wife and run the home well. The pressure of being a new wife is hard enough without being poorly prepared and not having the necessary skill sets.
The good news is you can learn the skills you need, remember that when you get married your husband knows that you are not going to be perfect from day one, there will be disasters in the kitchen and times when a takeaway meal is the only option. To help new and also existing wives I am going to post more practical tips and articles on running the home.
Things like how to budget, how to do meal plans etc. The skills a young wife must have. I am also offering one on one mentoring sessions to cover these skills if you would like more information on these and the cost contact me,. EP - A Submissive Wife should not worry about ageing. A Submissive Wife should not worry about ageing, just because your skin ages, your hair greys and you gain a little weight does not mean that you are no longer desirable to your husband. You are still the same beautiful, radiant woman inside and out; you still have what it takes for your husband.
Your husband has aged the same as you; you are growing old together your love for each other will become stronger each day. Your sex life will change with time, things may be slower but this does not mean your husband does not want you, with age comes "experience" you have both learnt over the years how to please each other.
The knee trembler in the kitchen will still happen, not at the same frantic pace but the love you feel will be way more intense than it was Any husband worthy of a Submissive Wife would never think of leaving his wife because she has aged, a worthy husband only sees the beauty in his wife. So stop worrying about ageing and enjoy growing old together. EP - A Submissive Wife should be an active partner in the marriage bed. A Submissive Wife should be an active partner in the marriage bed; it is not enough to lie there think about your day or the things you have to do. You need to mentally and physically engage with your husband.
If you are not careful sex can become tedious for both you and your husband over time. Don't allow sex to become a set routine, vary when and how you make love. Flirt with your husband, make your husband feel wanted. The more effort you put into your sex life, the stronger the bond with your husband will become. Sex is not just for reproduction it is a gift for married couples to enjoy.
If you think sex for pleasure is dirty, wrong or sinful then why were you given a clitoris it's purpose is to provide you with pleasure, nothing that happens is a marriage bed that gives pleasure and does not harm or hurt is wrong. EP - Party season is here. Party season is here a Submissive Wife should remember that she is a married lady and act accordingly.
Be careful about the amount of alcohol you drink it is easy to get carried away on large glasses of wine. You don't want to embarrass your husband by getting drunk. Drunken behaviour never looks good and often gets you into situations that leave you vulnerable to other men's advances or saying and doing things that you will regret tomorrow or even far longer. A submissive wife should dress like a lady with class and only wear clothing that your husband approves.
Remember you are dressing for his pleasure and attention not to attract other men. EP - Before Making social Arrangements. A Submissive Wife should remember before making any social arrangements it is respectful to ask her husband if he has any plans for then and also if he would like to go. It's not a matter of having to ask permission to go out it is about showing respect for your husband's role as head of the house.
If your husband does say no, then you should respect his decision and not go and not argue about it. You can, of course, ask your husband why he has said no and give your opinion but you should accept that his word is the final word. Your Husband is the Head of the house. EP - A Submissive Wife should refrain from gossiping. A Submissive wife should be meek and humble at all times. EP - Dealing with a rough patch. A useful tip I recommend to use when you hit a through a rough patch in your marriage is to write down the reasons you love your husband, make a list of all the positives about him from bigs things to the little things that mean so much to you.
Also, write down why you chose to submit to your husband. Then the next time you hit a rough patch sit down with a coffee and read the list to remind yourself why you are so lucky. There are always going to be rough patches in any marriage what matters is how you work through them together. EP - Submission to your Husband means. Your opinions are just as important as his, but you have given him the final say, and you are trusting him to make the right decisions.
EP - Marriage is not a community project. A Submissive Wife should remember that what goes on in a marriage is between husband and wife. Marriage is not a community project that is up for open discussion on social media or with friends. Do not share details of your romantic night or arguments. What goes on in the marital bed should stay between husband and wife. Your husband doesn't want to hear that your friends know his likes and dislikes in the bedroom. EP - Teach your children the importance of families spending quality time together.
As a mother, it is essential that you teach your children the importance of families spending quality time together each day, talking and sharing things about their day. The ideal time to do this is when you are all sitting around the table for the evening meal. Ban all phones and tablets from the table, have a family rule that all phones are placed in a box in another room while you have your family meal. Children need to learn how to communicate in a family environment and also experience what it is like to be part of a loving, caring family.
Modern families are losing these precious times help keep these traditional family values alive. EP - Never text anything or say anything that you would not share with your husband. A Submissive Wife should not be having conversations she would not want her husband to be part of or to hear. Never text anything or say anything that you would not share with your husband. If you feel you have to say something negative about your husband or hide things from your husband, then you need to work on your relationship, devote the time to your marriage and not building a wall between you and your husband.
EP - A Submissive Wife knows that is her place to serve her husband. Do you have a habit of trying to tell your husband to do this then do that and only end up irritating him? It is not your place to give him orders; you gave him the authority over you when you became his Submissive Wife. If a job needs doing bring it to your husband's attention, don't tell him to do it Stop challenging his authority. EP - Always make intimacy a priority in your marriage. A Submissive Wife should always make intimacy a priority in her marriage.
Do not let the lack of intimacy force a wedge between you. Make time for your husband; schedule regular date nights be an active partner in the marriage bed. The more effort you put into pleasing your husband, the more pleasure you will receive, sex is a two-way street.
The more intimate time you share, the stronger your bond will be. Her husband knows that her gift of submission is very precious and only given to the man she loves and trusts. She is safe in the knowledge that he loves and respects her just as much and that he would never do anything that would damage that special precious gift of submission. He will be her rock to lean on and fair when he needs to be firm with her.
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EP - A Submissive Wife should not feel ashamed to tell her friends and family that she is happy t. They never learn respect or that there are always consequences for their actions. One way a Submissive wife can show respect to her husband is to seek his approval before she arranges any social events. Even if this is unnecessary it will show him you value his support and put his wishes before that of your friends. Should your husband not approve of a social event then respect his wishes and trust he will have a valid reason for not wanting you to go.
Don't put friends before your husband You are married, so it is now MR before Sister! Enjoy being a woman, be proud to dress like a woman and do it with class and style that makes your husband proud to be seen out with you. EP - A Submissive Wife should only have eyes for her husband. A Submissive Wife should only have eyes for her husband. Don't start comparing your husband to movie stars, work colleges or your friend's husbands. When you start comparing him, you are making him sound inadequate, and he will feel as though he is not good enough for you.
He will think you wish you had married someone else. Comparing him to others is disrespectful and not worthy of his love. Remember your husband is the man you fell in love with; no one else could capture your heart as he did. EP - Work on your communication skills. A Submissive Wife should not let petty arguments turn into battles that steal your happiness. Instead, see them as a chance to work on your communication skills, the better you are at communicating your feelings without showing anger, the more your husband will understand your point of view the happier your marriage will be.
EP - Show your husband that you trust him. A Submissive Wife should remember that her husband cannot take control of his home if his wife will not take a step back and stop trying to make the decisions. You have to show your husband that you trust him and allow him to become the Head Of The House. EP - A Submissive Wife is a strong woman. A Submissive Wife should remember that your submission should always be your choice.
Your submission is a precious gift, one that should be treasured by your husband. Being submissive does not mean your husband has the right to abuse you or your children physically or mentally, Your husband has to be faithful, and he has to be worthy of your precious gift of submission. A Submissive Wife is a strong woman and not a punch bag or doormat. EP - A Submissive Wife should be careful of the friends that she keeps. A Submissive Wife should be careful of the friends that she keeps. If your friends do not show respect to your husband or your way of life, then you need to find new friends.
A true friend will respect your views even if they don't agree with them. EP - The "D" word has no place in her relationship. A Submissive wife should remember the "D" word has no place in her relationship. Your marriage has to be worked at; there will be difficult times, your relationship would not be healthy if you did not disagree from time to time. Work through your problems. When you get married, you become one body. Divorce is not an option. EP - Get rid of all distractions in the bedroom. A Submissive Wife should get rid of all distractions in the bedroom; you don't need to check your text messages or Facebook feed while connecting with your husband.
Don't allow pings from your phone to distract you and your husband from becoming one. Enjoy the moment together. EP - Listen to what your husband says. A Submissive Wife should try to remember when her husband is talking it is more respectful to listen and concentrate to what he is saying, rather than concentrating on your on your response to the little bits of conversation you have actually listened to. The more you listen the more you will understand what your husband means. EP - A Submissive Wife should have no secrets.
A Submissive Wife should have no secrets. A Wife should share everything she does with her husband and keep nothing from him. The passcode to her phone should not be a secret A Wife should have nothing on her phone that she would not want her husband to see. If you keep secrets from your husband, you are encouraging him to become suspicious of your actions, and that can lead to a break down in your marriage.
EP - If you struggling with sexual intimacy. If you struggling with sexual intimacy with your husband you should not keep this to your self. You need to talk to your husband about your concerns, it is not enough to just be one in the body you have to be one in mind as well. Sex inside the marriage bed is to enjoyed and it is not dirty or wrong and was intended to be enjoyed by both Husband and Wife. EP - Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
A Submissive Wife should remember that just because she has chosen to submit to her husband's authority, it does not give him the right to be physically or mentally abusive towards her. Husbands are told they have authority over the wife, but they are also told to love their wives and not be harsh with them.
EP - It will soon be the Christmas. It will soon be the Christmas; it is a wife's duty to plan and budget for Christmas so she can give her family the best Christmas she can with the money her husband gives her for the household budget. With planning and careful shopping, it is surprising how much you can save so you can buy the luxury's your family love at Christmas. EP - Show gratitude for him taking charge.
A Submissive Wife should show her gratitude to her husband for taking charge of his wife and home. She can do this in several ways, work hard and diligently to keep their home clean and tidy, cooked good wholesome home-cooked meals. A Submissive Wife should also remember it is her duty, and it should be her pleasure to take care of all his physical and emotional needs as a man.
EP - A Submissive Wife who chooses to stay at home. A Submissive Wife who chooses to stay at home to tend to the house and raise their children should not feel embarrassed about admitting she is a happy stay at home wife who enjoys tending to her husband's needs. She is fulfilling her natural role. The main thing to remember is you are choosing to live this way not being forced to live this way. EP - Let your husband know that you are thinking about him.
As a Submissive wife, you should make a point each day to let your husband know that you are thinking about him while he is at work. Text him and ask how his day is going, tell him you are thinking of him and how much he means to you. EP - Be happy with the man you fell in love with. A Submissive Wife should remember before moaning to her friends and family about her husband and his imperfections and how she wishes he would change Those shortcomings are what stopped him from getting a better WIFE.
Be happy with the man you fell in love with if he changes he won't be the man you fell in love with, Is that what you want? A Submissive Wife should always put her Husbands needs before Her own needs This is the secret to a good marriage. EP - Society is taking the man out of husbands. In these modern times, the husband's position of authority over his wife is on the decline; society is taking the man out of husbands, there is nothing wrong with men being Head Of the House and his wife submitting to his will. It is the wife's choice to be submissive, and she should be free to choose how she lives her life.
No one should judge her for wanting to have a traditional marriage serving her husband. EP - Do not dominate the conversation. A Submissive Wife should remember when your husband comes home from work do not dominate the conversation. Let him tell you about his day as well. Learn to listen more and speak less. EP - A submissive wife knows that a good marriage starts with Intention. A submissive wife knows that a good marriage starts with Intention. You intentionally smile at your husband You intentionally make time for him You intentionally touch him throughout the day You intentionally show your gratitude You intentionally are accountable for all your actions You intentionally work on your communication.
EP - A Wife should dress like a woman and not like a man. A Wife should dress like a woman and not like a man. Enjoy being feminine, enjoy looking beautiful. You don't need to dress trashy, dress modestly; you are not designed to look like a man God intended you to look like a woman and men to look like men. Wear clothing your husband likes to see you in.
EP - Ladies do not be afraid to let people know. Ladies do not be afraid to let people know you are happy to live your life as a traditional Wife with a husband who is not afraid to be Head Of The House and take control of his wife even discipline her if she needs it.
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A traditional marriage is a loving relationship not one of physical or mental abuse. EP - Is looking at your phone your first job in a morning. Is looking at your phone your first job in a morning. When was the last time you spoke to your husband at breakfast time? Concentrate on your marriage, not Social Media.
EP - A Wife should remember when she is angry with her husband. A Wife should remember when she is angry with her husband she should be quick to listen to her husband and slow to speak to her husband. Control your tongue, Listen to what he has to say, then think about what he has said and then give your reply calmly and respectfully. EP - If you decide to ignore your Husband.
If you decide to ignore your Husband and do the opposite of what he says, it is his duty as Head of the House to hold you accountable. Accept the consequences of your actions and learn from your mistakes. EP - Your Marriage is designed to last for your lifetime.
Your Marriage is designed to last for your lifetime. So instead of thinking you have married the wrong person and then look for excuses to end your marriage stop and remember why you feel in love with your husband in the beginning and work on how to restore those feelings. If you have to fight, fight for your marriage. EP - A Submissive wife is a discreet, humble, obedient homemaker. A Submissive Wife should be discreet, not tell others about your husband's shortcomings you would not want him to tell everyone about how you get things wrong and are not always the person you should be.
EP - Be his lover. A Submissive Wife should remember one of the reasons she married her husband was to be his lover and she is happy to give her husband authority over her body. She is proud to submit to her husband. EP - As his wife, your place is at the side of your husband. As his wife, your place is at the side of your husband where you should offer him your submission, encouragement and support through good and the bad times. You are his number one fan and the one person he can rely on upon without question even when he makes mistakes.
EP - A Submissive Wife should love her husband for who he is. A Submissive Wife should love her husband for who he is and what he has achieved and not whom she thinks he could be or achieve if he did things her way. Love and support him without trying to change or control him. EP - When your husband wants sex. When your husband wants sex, and you are mentally still dealing with the day, and can't be bothered to remember he is wired differently to you, he will take sexual rejection personally. You might not feel in the mood at first, but if you allow your mind to unwind and think romantic thoughts your body will soon catch up.
EP - A Submissive Wife should always put her husband's needs and wants before her own. A Submissive Wife should always put her husband's needs and wants before her own, this won't always be easy, and sometimes it will feel unfair. However, this is the life you have chosen, to submit to the man you love, the man whom you have trusted to take care of you. Submit to him with good grace and pray he will be a worthy husband.
EP - Husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home. Modern times and financial pressures have meant that the division of labour has altered in many homes with wives having full-time jobs. What should not alter is the husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home.
EP - If you are easily distracted from your duties. If you are easily distracted from your duties, ask your husband to hold you accountable for your time. Having to account for what you have done each day can be very helpful in keeping you on track if this is still not enough ask your husband to help you further by placing consequences for not completing your chores on time.
Do not allow distractions to get the better of you. EP - The greatest gift you can give your husband is. The greatest gift you can give your husband is your time. Because when you give your time you are giving a portion of your life that you will never get back and that is priceless. EP - Your decisions will become easier. Your decisions will become easier when your desire to please your husband is stronger than your desire to please your friends and family.
EP - Is your marriage not what it used to be? Is your marriage not what it used to be? Think about this verse "If you are too lazy to plough don't expect a harvest. EP - A Submissive wife should be modest in her dress. A Submissive wife should be modest in her dress out of the home. Men are wired differently to women men like to look at women and easily get the wrong signal, don't put your self a situation where your short skirt can be misread as a sign of flirting or seeking male attention.
EP - Don't complain when he has to work late. Your husband's place is to be the provider don't complain when he has to work late he is doing his best to provide a home for you and his family. Instead, ask him if there is anything you can do at home to make his day more manageable. EP - It is a wife's place to be thrifty and frugal.
It is a wife's place to be thrifty and frugal with the household budget. Before you buy ask yourself "Do we need this or do I just want this because my friends have one". Possessions don't buy happiness. EP - A wife should not use aggression. A wife should not use aggression as a way of winning an argument. EP - A Wife should rise early in the morning. A Wife should rise early in the morning, so she gets a head start on the day this helps other family members make the most of their day as well. Have breakfast ready, children's clothing laid out, lunches made so that the morning starts smoothly and on time for the whole family.
EP - Be the best wife and mother you can. As a submissive wife you should be the best wife and mother you can be so your daughters have the perfect role model in their life, and your sons know what to look for in a wife when they are older. EP - Don't allow life to become boring. Don't allow life to become boring look for ways to add a little magic surprise to your love life. Why not turn dinner tonight into a surprise date night, cook him something special, take time to pamper your self and wear something that he will enjoy, let him know that you can't wait for him to unwrap desert.
Set the mood the minute he walks through the door. EP - Be quick to forgive. When you argue with your husband you should be quick to forgive and not let your anger get the better of you. No good will come from being angry and bitter. Instead, learn to communicate better with your husband. EP - Be the best wife you can.
As his wife, you should strive to be the best wife you can helping and supporting your husband whenever you can. You want him to say that you are the wife he prayed for. EP - When you are ready to sit down and relax tonight. EP - Learn to control your tongue. As a Submissive Wife, you have to learn to control your tongue but don't forget your expression can speak a thousand words. EP - Be thankful. Be thankful for the gift of your husband and that you have been brought together to live your lives as one. This is a question that is often asked. As his wife, it is only natural you will want to spend lots of time with him at the weekend, but he also needs time to pursue his interests outside of work such as sport, fishing or even video games.
EP - Your husband is not your enemy. When you disagree with your husband, this is not a battle to see who wins or who loses. It is not an I win he loses, or he wins I lose situation. You either both win or you both lose. Your husband is not your enemy. EP - Never forget that the little gestures.
Never forget that the little gestures showing that you love your husband can mean so much to him. He does appreciate more than just food and sex. He likes to know he is loved. EP - Learn to trust his decisions. As his wife, you have to learn to trust his decisions. If you constantly question his choices, he will start to resent you as it is degrading and disrespectful to be asked about your choices all the time.
You have to trust that he wants the best for his family. EP - Show him you appreciate his efforts. Remember when your husband comes home from a long hard days work, take care of him show him you appreciate his efforts. Have a meal ready for him, greet him with a kiss and hug and not an "Oh your back already". EP - If you are finding it hard to submit to your husbands will. If you are finding it hard to submit to your husbands will remember to pray for help so that you will be more open to submitting to your husband's will.
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EP - A Submissive Wife will honour her marriage. A Submissive Wife will honour her marriage and always stay faithful in mind and body to her husband.
She will not allow herself to get into situations that would lead to adulterous thoughts or acts. EP - It is you and him vs the problems of life.
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As his wife, you should remember it is you and him vs the problems of life not you vs him over difficulties. Always work together as a team with your husband in charge. EP - Be proud to support traditional gender roles and values. Be proud to support traditional gender roles and values. EP - Dress like a lady.
A Submissive wife should dress like a lady, dress modestly, dress with class. A woman's real beauty is in her personality, not how much skin she shows. EP - You will encounter contempt for your lifestyle choice. As a Submissive wife you will encounter contempt for your lifestyle choice, don't take notice of other peoples negative views.
It is your life, and you will live your life as you wish, you know what is right and what is wrong. You know this is how things are meant to be. EP - Sadly society is attacking the authority of the man in the home. Sadly society is attacking the authority of the man in the home and family values are suffering because of this. Your children need a Father who is in charge of the home and its values. EP - A Submissive Wife should not try to have authority over her husband. A Submissive Wife should not try to have authority over her husband or try to tell him what to do.
Her place is to be the submissive partner and follow her Husbands lead. EP - Do something nice for your Husband. When was the last time you went out of your way to do something nice for your Husband? Such as cooking his favourite meal or arrange for him to do something he loves doing but usually doesn't do. EP - Always to put your Husband first. Once you are married, you must remember always to put your Husband first.
Because once you were joined in matrimony, you become one body. EP - Complement him not compete with him. A Submissive Wife should remember that women were not created to do the things a man can do but to do the things a man cant do, her role is to complement him not compete with him. EP - It is essential that you have friends.
It is essential that you have friends outside of your marriage, but you should always remember your marriage is not a group project.