17 Things You Should Know the Next Time You Say 'I’m so Depressed'
While everyone experiences black and white thinking to some extent, extreme black and white thinking can also be a symptom of mental illness. People with Borderline Personality Disorder , for example, experience intense black and white thinking, which can in turn affect their perceptions of their relationships with others and with themselves.
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This can be hard — after all, cognitive distortions can make our thought processes, well, distorted — but taking time to consciously examine your thoughts and question extremes can help. It can also help to actively cultivate empathy. For example, if you think your sister, who just hurt you, is a completely awful person, it may be useful to take a moment, pause, and ask yourself why she might have done what she did. Black and white thinking can give us a measure of security. But it can also cut us off from the complexity and richness of life. Allowing ourselves to venture into uncertainty is, paradoxically, a way to see more clearly: not in black and white or even gray, but in complex, dazzling rainbow.
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I was falling further and further behind with my debt repayments. More than that, the will had gone.
When you get hit by a few things at once it affects your ability to think clearly. You are firefighting all the time. Depression saps your energy: it makes it hard to get up in the morning and put together a rational plan. As a stop-gap measure, I stayed with friends. What was supposed to be temporary ended up lasting a year. There was a long period when I was rudderless, moving from place to place. To say I was lucky is an understatement — I never had to live on the streets.
The people who put a roof over my head were unbelievably kind and generous and never once made me feel like I was an intruder.
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But I felt like an intruder. Help yourself. You know how the remote works.
I was a guest. I would walk around the shopping centre and the streets for hours hoping to exhaust myself, looking at empty allotments and wondering if I could live there. My experience changed how I see homeless people. After a while I got over whatever it was that was going on in my head. I found a job and a flat and the friends who helped me are still, thankfully, my friends.
But I have never got over the fear of homelessness, that feeling of being nowhere.
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I am lucky that I now have a beautiful home in which I am very happy. I live on a narrowboat. I have been homeless twice — once when I was 23 and again at Both times it was due to mental health problems.
Then I went to stay with friends. I was still struggling and one night I had a panic attack. I went to a male friend who turned me away — until he realised I was desperate. Then he made me a bed on his living room floor. If you're new to working out, it can have a huge positive impact. One recent study study suggests that the way a high-fat diet changes our gut bacteria can actually affect our brains and increase our risk of depression and other mental health problems like anxiety and impaired memory.
Alcohol is a depressant, Van Dahlen reminds us.
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